Happy Birthday Julia Cook - June 8
Assumptions spell certain doom in teaching and also in parenting. Just like the time, I assumed that my daughter could go to the zoo after one day of potty training without a diaper. We returned home early not because I wasn't prepared with extra clothes for her but because I didn't expect to need extra clothes for me. (No, I didn't have an accident. I just happened to be holding her up to see the animals when she had hers.) This week, I learned that I need to be careful to not assume that my children completely understand issues like family safety and social skills. We read a half dozen books by Julia Cook including Bully B.E.A.N.S, My Mouth is a Volcano, and A Bad Case of the Tattle Tongue. The number of questions that my children had while reading these books told me that my wife and I need to spend more time talking about many of the issues that Julia Cook presents in her books.
Julia Cook has written over 20 books to help parents and children with life issues, fears, behaviors, and personal hygiene. She is a former elementary school guidance counselor that now has broadened her reach to help families and children through her children's books. In a video clip posted on her YouTube Channel, Julia Cook states, "As a guidance counselor, I would have kids come into my office and actually think that I could wave my magic counseling wand and solve their problems for them. But, a good counselor, a good teacher, a good parent gives the child the wand and shows them how to use it."
I have to thank my daughter's school guidance counselor for loaning me all of the books we read this week. She told me that, "The books by Julia Cook send great messages to children and are written in such a fashion so that they can really 'get it'! I know they are beneficial to my students when they can reference a book in the spring that we shared together in the fall!" (Thank you, Tami!)
My son's favorite book by Julia Cook was A Bad Case of the Tattle Tongue. My wife and I assumed that our oldest two children knew all about tattling, as they are very good at it! However, we learned pretty quickly that our children had lots of questions and needed a few strategies to completely understand why tattling is not a good habit. To help them have a greater understanding of the social skill we read the book multiple times, talked about the strategies described by Julia Cook in the book, role played the strategies, and reviewed what we learned.
|My son insisted on rereading the book before our family discussion and role playing. He said, "Dad, we always read the book again before we do an activity!"|
|First, we made tattle tongues with a piece of yellow construction paper and a purple marker.|
|In the book, Josh has a problem with tattling too much. His tongue grew too big for his mouth and turned yellow with purple spots.|
|I am happy to say that my children's case of Tattle Tongue cleared up after our evening of role playing. Phew!|
I love Julia's proactive approach to these issues. I want to read, discuss, and role play more of her books with my children. I know that I can't predict every situation, just like getting peed on at the zoo, but I can at least prepare my family with the tools necessary to handle a tough situation if it presents itself.
I contacted to Julia Cook to see if she had a birthday memory to share. She didn't have just one memory to share, but three! Here was her response:
I have three birthdays that are very special to me. When I was 11, I had kids bring bags of groceries to my party instead of presents. Then after the party, my mom and I donated all of the groceries to the local food bank. It was a true gift to be able to help others.
Another favorite birthday memory was when I got my first accordion at the age of 6.
The other favorite birthday memory was when I got a unicycle when I was 7! At the age of 10, I put them together!
1. Julia Cook Online
2. Julia Cook's YouTube Channel
3. Follow Julia on Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest
4. Julia Cook on Parenting.org
5. Interview - Wild About Reading
6. Worst Day of My Life Ever! Activity Guide, Sample Preview - BoysTown Press
7. I Just Don't Like the Sound of No! Activity Guide, Sample Preview - BoysTown Press
8. Sorry, I Forgot to Ask, Sample Preview - BoysTown Press
9. Personal Space Camp Activity and Idea Guide Sample - NCYI.org
10. Free Printable lesson My Mouth is a Volcano Lesson - TeachersPayTeachers